Unforgiveness is like cancer. If we don’t ‘get it all’, it will eventually kill us. Therefore, we should focus on the person we are least willing to forgive.
Sometimes the ‘worst offenders’ are our worst problem (1 Tm 1:15). We need to be willing to accept God’s grace to forgive the cruelest murderers, rapists, and terrorists. Only by the grace of Jesus can we forgive anyone, in particular these worst offenders.
Sometimes the ‘repeat offenders’ present the most formidable challenge. Yet Jesus commands us to forgive seventy times seven times (Mt 18:22). His grace is sufficient (2 Cor 12:9).
For many people, the closest offenders are the worst. Spouses, children, parents, or people we see every day have the greatest potential to hurt us. How humanly impossible it is to forgive prodigal children and prodigal brothers! (Lk 15:28)
Which person are you least willing to forgive? Right now, turn to Jesus and say: “Only by Your grace, Jesus, I decide to forgive the person I am least willing to forgive”. The cancer of unforgiveness is totally gone. You can live with Jesus forever